tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73685132634595243412024-02-19T23:23:04.700-08:00simplifiedKnow more about loveEr. Sanju Bhandarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13829529940634664003noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368513263459524341.post-54638389520790080002015-05-27T20:40:00.001-07:002015-05-27T20:40:50.784-07:00And I Love Her - Passenger with Lyrics<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/T79bI1OVs0M" width="480"></iframe>Er. Sanju Bhandarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13829529940634664003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368513263459524341.post-35367549385969461052015-05-27T20:37:00.001-07:002015-05-27T20:37:45.882-07:00Stay With Me - Ed Sheeran with Lyrics<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/L9TNCdZldbM" width="480"></iframe>Er. Sanju Bhandarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13829529940634664003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368513263459524341.post-27466095288436557992015-05-27T20:36:00.001-07:002015-05-27T20:36:20.358-07:00 See You Again - Charlie Puth with Lyrics<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/KtthXMjQqBo" width="480"></iframe>Er. Sanju Bhandarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13829529940634664003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368513263459524341.post-64708166714603385952015-05-23T19:11:00.001-07:002015-05-23T19:11:45.454-07:0012 Real Signs Of True Love In A Relationship<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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True love may be hard to define, but the signs to read true love can be clearly seen in every perfect loving relationship.<br />
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If you’re in a relationship and want to know if you’re experiencing the purest form of love, use these 12 signs of true love to find out for yourself.<br />
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<b>#1 Give and take in love</b>. You give to the relationship wholeheartedly, without any desire or expectations of getting something back in return from your partner to justify your actions.<br />
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<b>#2 Pure happiness.</b> Just watching this special person smile or laugh out loud fills you with intense happiness, even if you’re suffering or having a hard day.<br />
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<b>#3 Pain and anger</b>. You get terribly hurt when your lover upsets you, but their actions never anger you. You may get annoyed or frustrated now and then momentarily, but you just can’t stay mad at them for long because staying mad or giving them the silent treatment hurts you more. [Read: The effective way to give someone the silent treatment in a relationship]<br />
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<b>#4 Sacrifice</b>s. You make sacrifices for their happiness or well being, even if they may never realize it.<br />
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<b>#5 The right effort.</b> You go to great lengths and make an effort to improve the relationship, and play a conscious part in trying to please your partner and make them feel loved and special.<br />
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<b>#6 You can’t ever hurt them</b>. When you’re truly in love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting them, emotionally or physically. Payback is a strong human instinct, but true love makes you completely selfless.<br />
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<b>#7 You keep your promises.</b> When you make a promise to them, you stick to your word even if this person will never find out if you broke their promise. When you experience true love, your moral conscience becomes very strong when it comes to this one special person.<br />
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<b>#8 We. In a perfect relationship,</b> it’s good to have your own space to grow as individuals. But at the same time, if you truly love your partner, you’d see them as a part of your life. When you think of your future, you can’t help but see them by your side.<br />
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<b>#9 You share their burden</b>. And you do that even if you don’t really have to. You can’t bear to see this special someone suffering. If they’re dealing with some issue, you’re always willing to offer them a helping hand even when you have your own difficulties to look into.<br />
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<b>#10 Pride and jealousy.</b> You beam with pride when they achieve something, even if it’s the same thing you failed at. You may get jealous of a friend who outdid you, but when you love someone, jealousy never enters the picture.<br />
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<b>#11 Suffering.</b> You’d be willing to suffer, just to see them happy.<br />
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<b>#12 Their perspective</b>. Everything you do, you keep your lover in mind and think from their perspective, be it about planning a surprise party or hanging out with your own friends after work. You don’t ever want to hurt your lover, so you always think from their point of view before making any decision that involves them in any way.<br />
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Er. Sanju Bhandarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13829529940634664003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368513263459524341.post-73495569663873634952015-05-20T09:56:00.001-07:002015-05-20T09:56:36.087-07:00Ariana Grande - One Last Time (Official)<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/BPgEgaPk62M" width="480"></iframe>Er. Sanju Bhandarihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13829529940634664003noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7368513263459524341.post-81030860356926623972015-05-15T02:04:00.000-07:002015-05-15T02:19:47.018-07:0019 AMAZING PICTURES , SHOWING HOW LOVE SHOULD BE LIKE<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">As human being it is a basic need we all need love, love make every person to believe more .We are all super used to how love is normally </span>portrayed<span style="font-family: inherit;"> in the movies and media,</span><span style="color: #262626;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 23px;"> that of which can be quite grandiose and can be at times even quite unrealistic. And more often than not people actually start believing that this is what perfect love should look like.And unrealistic fairy tale. Not to say that these moments dont actually happen, but when people come to judge their own relationship and moments within them based on what see in the movies is where it becomes a problem.</span></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #262626; font-size: 15px; line-height: 23px;">Puuung , a Korean artist creation inspires us to believe in love again. </span><br />
<span style="color: #262626;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 15px; line-height: 23px;">love is great and we should always lower our ego when it comes to there. loving someone and someone loving you back is the best thing in the world.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #191919; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">comforting the woman when she was crying</span><br />
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ice cream sharing<br />
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lovely evening, doing stupid things together<br />
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dance with the one, makes you more connected<br />
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caring secrectly<br />
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cooking together<br />
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shopping for groceries together<br />
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the feeling of seeing her sleeping on your arms, best ever<br />
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waking up, though irritating but really admiring<br />
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lovely kiss<br />
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hug , the best medicine for anything<br />
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<strong>1. Your favorite song is likely associated with an emotional event.</strong></h3>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">3. The more you spend on others, the happier you are.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">4. Spending money on experience instead of stuff also makes you happier.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">5. Kids are more high strung today than the average psych ward patient in 1950.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">6. Certain religious practices lower stress.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">7. Money does buy happiness, but only up to $75,000 a year.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">8. Being with happy people makes you happier.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">9. 18 to 33 year olds are the most stressed out people on earth.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">10. Convincing yourself you slept well tricks your brain into thinking it did.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">11. Smart people underestimate themselves and ignorant people think they’re brilliant.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">12. When you remember a past event, you’re actually remembering the last time you remembered it.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">13. Your decisions are more rational when thought in another language.</strong></div>
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<strong style="color: #222222; font-size: 32px; line-height: 38px;">14. If you announce your goals, you’re less likely to succeed.</strong></div>
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<strong>1. To find the right person, be the right person.</strong> Before you get back into a relationship, build your life. Finish your unfinished business. Become objective about what went wrong in your last relationship, and in the relationships before that. Do a relationship inventory and a life inventory. You must discover the patterns and habits that torpedoed previous relationships before you get into a new one. If you're in a relationship and trying to salvage or save it, you—both of you—must figure out and heal that which has been hurting you and your relationship. If one partner changes, the other is forced to change or leave. You cannot maintain the status quo when one of you chooses to change.</div>
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<strong>2. To be the right person and to find real love, you must develop your boundaries.</strong>Know what you stand for before you have to stand for it. Is an affair a deal breaker? What else will you NOT stand for: <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/pornography" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.2s; background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at Porn">Porn</a> use? Pot abuse? Drunkenness? Forgetting to call? Standing you up? Not being financially stable? Not holding a job? Not being honest? You have to know this <em>before</em> you are tested. You have to be able to say, "If <em>x</em> happens, I am out of here—without argument."</div>
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Make sure you know what would be a deal breaker for you—and make sure you break the deal if it happens. Be committed to walking away when a deal breaker breaks. If there are other things that you think deserve second and third chances, then commit to walking away the second or third time it becomes an issue. If you stay beyond that, you're basically <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/deception" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.2s; background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at lying">lying</a> to yourself. Walk away for what you believe in. Otherwise you'll just be stuck in dysfunction again and bargaining with yourself in order to accept what you shouldn't accept.</div>
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<strong>3. Real love communicates in a healthy way. </strong>Name calling is out. Blaming and nitpicking is out. Accusations are out. Learn to begin sentences with "I feel" or "I think" or "In my opinion," and be with others who communicate similarly. Don't let anyone project onto you what you are thinking or feeling. Don't defend yourself against that which you're not doing. There is much game-playing in dysfunctional relationships. The only way to win is not to play. Healthy relationships are about forthright and honest communication.</div>
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<strong>4. Real love requires <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/motivation" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.2s; background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at goals">goals</a> and aspirations, both individually and as a couple. </strong>You have to have plans and dreams, and agree on the future. You must help each other fulfill your hopes and dreams as individuals and as a couple. Figure out what you've always wanted to do—and do it. Find out what your partner wants in life and out of life. Figure out, early on, if you can and will support each other in achieving everything you've always wanted. It is important that you figure this out early on.</div>
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<strong>5. As a prelude to finding real love, learn to be discriminating in all your relationships—with family, friends, acquaintances, and co-workers. </strong>Learn to make choices and not just let friendships and professional relationships "happen." Don't spend time with family just because they're family. Choose to only have those in your life who are loving, respectful, honest, and open, and who care about you. Choose people who <em>know</em>that trust is earned and that once broken, it's next to impossible to get back. Choose people who do not keep you guessing about how they feel, or how they feel about you. Choose people who are not ambivalent about you or their relationship with you.</div>
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Don't put up with people who say, "I'm confused," "I gotta be me," or, "I want to be a good partner, but I don't know how." You get what you put up with. If you want less doubt in your life, stop putting up with it. Real love is discriminating and insists upon loving treatment no matter what.</div>
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<strong>6. Stop being a victim. </strong>Stop thinking you have no control over what happens to you. Most people stuck in unhealthy patterns (including me when I was) are stuck in a mud pit of denial, justification, and rationalization. Learn to call yourself on your own rationalizations, and stop believing the justifications that keep you stuck and "victimized." You need to untangle yourself from any need you might have to be pitied. If you find yourself telling stories in which you were taken advantage of or someone did you wrong, and the stories are being told to generate sympathy, stop and realize that going through life as a victim is not attractive to healthy people. Take charge of yourself and what happens to you day in and day out.</div>
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<strong>7. Live with purpose. </strong>Spend some quiet time alone each day, without interruption, to think about your life and how it's structured. Think about what you need to do to "get better" in different areas. Learn to meditate by getting quiet and relaxing. <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/meditation" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.2s; background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at Meditation">Meditation</a> is not sitting on a pillow chanting—it's just learning to calm down and go inward without distraction. Living purposefully is the opposite of living randomly. It's thinking about what you're doing when you're doing it. It's about not looking at your phone every 10 minutes, or mindlessly checking <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/social-networking" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.2s; background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at Facebook">Facebook</a> 200 times a day. It's about having your head where your feet are. Look around, and see what's going on where you are at this very minute.</div>
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Learn to be disciplined and control your urge to be tied to your phone, to dive into ice cream when you're not happy, or to do anything without really thinking about it. It's about doing the "tough" things, like sitting with your feelings, going to the gym, or eating healthy. Spend some time each day thinking about your impulses and mindless behaviors. and ways in which you can improve your self-control and <a class="inline-links topic-link" href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/self-control" style="-webkit-transition: color 0.2s; background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border-bottom-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: black; padding-bottom: 2px; text-decoration: none; transition: color 0.2s; word-wrap: break-word;" title="Psychology Today looks at self-discipline">self-discipline</a>. Quiet time each day is so important to building a healthy life. Try to stretch it out. Set goals for building the amount of time you can spend every day in quiet meditation and purposeful action (and purposeful inaction). Having a say in everything you do and everything you don't do is important to being healthy and being capable of giving and receiving real love. (It is also important, when you're in a relationship, to continue to cultivate this practice and to have your own "me time" and alone time every day.)</div>
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<strong>8. Know that real love does not hurt. </strong>Yes, there are misunderstandings and upsets and disappointments in every relationship, but in healthy relationships they are not a regular happening. Real love and really loving relationships are consistent. They are not always easy, but they tend to run smoothly because everyone works at it. Love is what helps you deal with the curves that life throws at you—not what makes things more difficult. Love, real love, is support in a difficult world, not something that makes your life even harder. Real love gives each other the benefit of the doubt without being foolish about it. Pick your battles, and don't fight over everything. Don't be with people who turn everything into an argument or a challenge. It's exhausting, and doesn't need to be that way. Healthy people refuse to live that way.</div>
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<strong>9. Real love does not ask us to sacrifice that which we love. </strong>Not our interests, not our hobbies, not our friends and family. If someone is asking you to do that, it's not healthy and not good for you. If you're willing to do that without even being asked, it's even worse. It's normal to cocoon in a new relationship but after a time, you have to get back to the things and the people you love. Keep your life balanced; if you give up what you love and the people you love, you will look around one day and realize you can't leave your relationship because you have nothing else. You may need to rework the ratios of how much time you give to each of your interests and loved ones, but it's important that nothing (and no one) is treated as an afterthought.</div>
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<strong>10. The most important thing to know about real love is that love is an action from you and to you. </strong>Act it and insist on it. Every single day, whether in a relationship or not, you must affirm that love is what you <em>do</em>, not what you <em>say</em>, and you must insist upon it with everyone in your life. If it's a "non-love" relationship (i.e. professional), respect is the action and you must be treated with respect in all your relationships.</div>
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